Well I did not think even in my dreams that one day, I will have to take back my words. Sometime back ,I myself, in this very same blog had posted about changing relations. But never did I think that one day I will have to go through that change myself.
Someone rightly said that change is the only permanent thing on this earth. How very true. But the transition phase sometimes becomes painful. Dr. Spencer in his book "Who moved my cheese? " puts it in a beautiful way:
" The more important your cheese is to you the more you want to hold on to it"
The more we are with a person or in a place or may be a situation, the more complacent we become; the more resistant one becomes to change; more fear builds up towards changes.
Dr.Spencer goes on to say " When you move beyond your fear, you feel free."
This can, in my opinion can only be done by noticing changes at its smallest level and try to quickly adapt to that change.
One will have to change along with the change if not before the change.
I suggest reading this book if you can get hold of one.....
But is it possible to accept a change in the relationship one shares with the other person...it might be in friendship or something else......
Well one of the possible ways could be to try and be more professional.....
But it is easier said than done....
